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5 Things Your Babysitter Secretly Wishes You Knew

As a parent, it can be tough to leave your child with a babysitter, especially if it's someone you don't know well. You want them to be safe, happy and well cared for.

There are some things your babysitter might not feel comfortable telling you directly, but that they really wish you knew. Here are five of them.

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Building a stronger relationship with your babysitter

Be clear about your expectations

Your babysitter wants to do a good job, but they need to know what you expect. Let them know what time you'll be back, share important contact details and explain your child's routine. If you have any concerns, talk about them before you leave. This helps your babysitter feel prepared and confident.

Keep them informed

If your plans change or you're running late, let your babysitter know. This helps them manage their time and continue caring for your child properly. If you can't contact them directly, leave clear instructions before you go so they won't feel unsure about what to do.

Trust them

Your babysitter is there to care for your child and do their job well. Trust them to follow your instructions and manage the situation. Constant calls or messages can distract them and add pressure, which can make the experience more stressful for everyone.

Respect their time

Your babysitter has other commitments, so it's important to respect their time. If you're running late, let them know as soon as possible, and be prepared to pay for the extra time. If you cancel last minute, consider offering a cancellation fee. This shows respect and helps maintain a good working relationship.

Show appreciation

Babysitting can be a demanding job, and your babysitter wants to feel valued. A simple thank you can go a long way. Let them know if your child enjoyed their time together, and share any specific needs or preferences clearly so your babysitter can provide even better care.

Before you head out, the basics

A quick run-through that makes every booking smoother…

Your return time and a number to reach you
Your child's routine, meals and bedtime
Any allergies, medication or special needs
An emergency contact and your home address
Where to find snacks, nappies and first aid

Final thoughts

By following these tips, you can build a strong and positive relationship with your babysitter. Clear communication, trust and respect make a big difference. Because of this, your babysitter will feel more confident, and your child will feel more comfortable while you're away.

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